Christian Marriage Care Center

A little romance, that’s all we want -and what do we get?  We get real life.

But real life romance is often compromised with misunder-standing, missed signals, overdue bills and overzealous expectations.

Real Romance is making love to your man and your woman even in the down times.  Your connection with each other is a beautiful life necessity.  You need him, he needs you.  Your being able to touch him or her deep in their souls is a beautiful thing.

Sexual relationship in marriage between a man and woman is pure, raw and can even be spiritual.  But we have believed a lie. 

We believe that passion has been stolen from us.

Do you think that sex is just so that the husband gets relief from his built up tension; at worst that sex is only to procreate. 

Do we really wonder why there is so much infidelity? 

I must warn, do not deny the fundamental idea that God created us sexual beings and sex in marriage is meant to be good, very good.

Guys and Dolls, I am talking to both of you.  MsDeebo never thinks that the guy or the girl should do all the work.  Your romance will take both of you.  It will take responsibility on both your parts.  You both have to be responsible for your own individual sexual fulfillment. 

One of the biggest difficulties that couples experience is this:

Each one feels the sexual satisfaction and fulfillment is in responsiblity of their partner.  This concern grows somewhat naturally from love, care, concern and submission to each other. Yes, the loving and caring concern is wonderful, but the final responsibility lies with each partner.  We must find within our own sexual beings ability to communicate our desires and our wants. 

The barrier that is blocking enjoyment of sex is just this: thinking that your lover is a mind reader.