The contents of a book are filled with words that reveal what the author had on his mind. Our words are very important. Please be careful with your words. What you say is just as important as what you do not say. Saying "I love you" carries as much wait as saying "I hate you." I encourage you to say words that uplift your spouse. (For the time being I want to talk to my lady friends.) In Sex Tip #2, I encouraged you to "Talk Dirty to Your Man". There are some who will find it difficult to form words that you are not used to saying. I had difficulty in this area. I am a christian woman and wife and only wanted what was righteous and holy to come from my mouth. Well, girls let me tell you this straight. If words have life and words can create, then why can't we learn words that will create a highly charged sexual communion between us and our man?
Our personalities will dictate how we handle things. I am very brave once I scope out the territory. I found ways that I could talk dirty to my husband and still be comfortable in my own skin. Here is what helped me.
---Mae West,"I'm never dirty. I am interesting without being vulgar. I just...suggest."
Our men want to know that they are pleasing us. They want to know we are satisfied. He wants to know he is the only man for the job. If your man is satisfying you TELL HIM! Trust me, you will be glad you told him. (Build up your man before some other woman does.)
Here are some suggestions that you can use.
"I am having a great time."
"You are giving me great pleasure."
"I want to give you great pleasure."
"Isn't it great to share such great pleasure together?"
"I am so hot for you I can not control it."
"You are such a great lover I am in ecstacy."
"I have never experienced such bliss."
"I am still having a great time."
"I am about to come and I am happy about it."
"I could do this all night because it feels so good."MsDeebo-Happy Marriage